I wish I could take your pain away

                         Two posts in one day may be a little too much but it's already 12:03 am & technically it's another day :) So there I was looking at my Facebook news feed & something got my attention.(I prefer to not talk about what happened because I think I have no right)
                        It got me thinking about how sometimes when someone you know is going through a very hard time & you know they are hurting bad, you wanna console them but you're afraid you might not be able come up with the right words or worse end up saying something stupid which might hurt them more. You can just imagine what they are going through but you cannot know what it's like to be in that exact situation, you cannot imagine the degree of pain their heart must be holding in. Wish I could do something, wish I had words to tell you but all that I am capable to say is a faint "take care" :/

                        OK, so that was me talking about "someone we know" but what if  "that someone" suffering is someone close to us ? Someone we love so much, someone we care about, someone so dear that seeing them is pain makes your heart feel like it's been crushed. Sometimes I hate the fact that I am just a human with no magical powers. When bad things happen to people I love, when I see them in pain, all that I can do is sit there and watch. Being there is NOT good enough. I feel a heavy weight on my chest. The thought that I am incapable to help them, makes it hard to breathe at times. Once again, I find no words to tell them......inside I scream "I wish I could take your pain away" and outside I smile and try not to show, it's killing me inside. I get so angry at times but then have this faith that if God gives you pain, he makes you strong enough to bear it. I pray, I pray everyday & hope slowly he is going to fix everything. Faith is all that keeps me going.


Have faith
& smile for the ones you love <3
xoxo

Let it go !!

                                   You know how you see someone with that sad look on their face & in a minute they start complaining about how they have a crappy life. I’ve seen people do this & I always wonder “WHY?”. If you let a bad thing turn your day into a bad day & your bad day make you feel like you have a bad life, then you’re nothing but stupid.  But at times I end up being the stupid one. Bad feelings are powerful, they can make the happiest day seem like a nightmare. We humans have this habit of looking at the bad side of the situation, instead of working things out we tend to sit down and mourn about what went wrong, why it went wrong, how it went wrong, bla bla bla. Is it even worth it ?  Why can’t we simply let it go as what’s done is done, it cannot be changed & why ruin the rest of the day thinking about it ? Every time I’m in a situation like this, I tell myself how I am stronger than this “bad feeling”, how I won’t let it drag me down, I put on a smile and enjoy the rest of my day. It’s not a easy job but ones you get used to it, you’ll love the feeling.

                                        And trying to look at the positive side, we actually need bad things to happen so that we can truly cherish the goodness of good things(if you know what I mean). Each day is a gift, we have an uncertain future so remember that every minute you stay sad, you lose 60 seconds of happiness J




Feel blessed
Stay happy
& keep reading my blog posts [>.^]
xoxo

Happy new Year 2069 :)

                    Nepali new year 2069, I wanned to wish everyone & write something about how I'd like to live my life. With every passing day, we add new memories to life........we do good things, we do bad things but what really defines us is the way we handle ourselves, how we deal with everything & everyone around us, how we live our life doing what we love. Let's stop living life fulfilling expectations of the group of people we like to call "the society". Let's be oursleves, let the inner beauty shine through our eyes, make happy moments with people  we love & not waste time thinking about stupid stuffs that takes our smile away. The sole purpose of life is to LIVE. At the end we'll not remember how many breath we took, it'll all be about how many moments took our breath away. 


"Man. He sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he doesn't live in the present or in the future; he lives as if he'll never die & then dies having never really lived" - Dalai Lama
[This got me thinking deep about my life, so I wanned to share it with you guys]

Nawa Barsa 2069 saal ko hardik mangal maye shubhakamana !!! :D 

*Jai Nepal*

Do you remember me ?

                       

                  In life we meet a lot of people. Some of them were there to bring a change in us, some of them tried to break us, some of them made us who we are today. People come and  people go, what really haunts me is the thought of being forgotten by the ones  I’ll always remember.

                   I am one of those people who  cannot trust anyone when it comes to letting them into her heart. Maybe it’s because I know how fragile it is. Scared of being hurt, I chose to stay away from so many people I really cared about. It was better to say good-bye then than to separate later. I guess I was thinking too much, which made me give up on what we had,  in all of this may be I lost someone who could have been my everything. It’s funny how I don’t regret it because I let go of people who didn’t bother  to hold on to me. So, may be I made the right decision.  I still have many people in my life but I tend to go back in time, think about all the great feelings I had & a sharp thought gives this uneasy feeling to my heart; do they ever  think about me ? So many people, I left behind who were a great part of my life, who understood me & people who I could understand.  Do they get these flash backs when they hear my name(because I do) ? Was I worth being remembered ? Do they remember how things used to be before it all got so messed up ? Was I ever  an important  person in their lives ? So many questions runs through my head. So many things I wanna tell them BUT  now they act like strangers, they pretend we’ve never met,  I feel like I don’t know them and all the memories I have is just a part of my  dream. Every time I think about them….……all I can do is close my eyes & let my heart shout out loud “Do you still remember ME ??”

We STILL believe in it :)

            Hello EVERYONE ^.^ I've been so lazy lately so thought about writing this short blog on something I really believe in. I've been reviving my childhood memories by watching the Disney fairy tales all over again(finished watching two of them). Hope you like this one & bear with me till I come up with something more interesting. *TEEHEE*

           We grew up watching the FAIRY TALES. Dreaming about a prince who’ll come into our lives & give us our very own “Happily Ever After”. Slowly we all realised we live in the REAL world, some of us knew about it the nice way…….. while some of us, through the hard way(I guess you all know what I mean)

            These days telling those three magical words is so easy. “I will love you forever” does not last as long as we think it will, hurting, betraying & moving on is the new trend. I see everyone mourning over their unfulfilled love stories which gets me thinking how we always thought our first love would last forever. 

          But no matter how much we get hurt, no matter how many pieces our hearts turn into, we still manage to love with those little broken pieces, we still hope for a better  love story. Every time the same thought runs across our minds. Every girl has this dream of finding THAT perfect one !! Perfect in sense......perfect for her. We know fairy tales do not exist but some how....some where...we STILL believe in IT ♥

Oh, my dear prince 

We are NOT strangers.

I know you.

Don't you remember ?

We've met before........ONCE UPON A DREAM <3

Have faith in your dreams & someday

Your rainbow will come smiling through 

No matter how your heart is grieving

If you keep on believing

A dream that you wish...WILL COME TRUE ^_^ 

Happy Girl will always believe in HAPPY ENDINGS :) 

All of you should start believing that good things fall apart so that better things can fall into its place.

Take care

much love

xoxo 

........................Is it OKAY, not being pretty ??

                   I once knew this girl, so young & so naive. She had a crush but ‘they’ said ugly girls were not allowed to love. Looking at the mirror she’d always see flaws, late at night she’d ask God why he made her so ugly and all the other girls around her so pretty ? She grew up trying hard to look good,  trying hard to fix herself, most of all trying hard to be liked by other people. This might sound pathetic but this is the kind of world we live in, where people are judged upon their outer look(I hear, at places even a job is given to a better looking candidate). It’s the heart that matters  but nobody wants to know the heart of a physically ugly person. Everyone is in this race of being perfect, looking the best but in the process without knowing or realising they loose themselves, they forget who they really are in the inside.

                The one and only question that lingers around me is, “Is it Okay not being pretty ?” I once read somewhere; one needs to look and act like a princess in order to get a prince & every girl wants a prince, don’t they ? Sometimes I wish every human on this planet would look alike (e.g ants) *sigh*

The funny thing is when I see guys saying that girls who wear make up are fake, they obviously like pretty girls & on top of that they want natural beauty ?? Hello !! Not everyone is born pretty -.-

Fake are people who lie to your face, fake are friends who go behind your back and spread shit about you, fake are people who tell you they love you when they don’t. You wanna call ‘make up’ fake ? That’s like saying ‘wearing  jeans’ is fake ‘putting on shades’ is fake ‘buying good shoes’ is fake. People are already trying to deal with the pressure of being “PRETTY” and then you go around and call them fake ? Why is everything so complicated ? Argghhhh……..

So, if one day one of  us decides to quit on this whole being pretty thing and goes around looking the ugly self, then what ? She is going to be the ugly one and the world will remain the same. There is nothing we can do, we’ll just have to live with it. Therefore, it is concluded that, it is not okay not being pretty. A tiny bit of hope that we all can keep is one fine day, we’ll be able to find some people who will not judge us based on our look and will love us for who we are in the inside ^^ (Best friends & Love)

Happy girl will meet you guys next time. 

So till then, take care of yourself. 

Love yourself because no-one can do it better & stay pretty inside and out. 

*much love*

Important note :

            You might see girls trying so hard to look good. Hair, face, clothes, shoes, breakouts etc we got a lot to worry about. Every time we see a mirror, we try to fix ourselves, some are too obsessed & some care a little less BUT when you are a girl, you do care about your looks (can’t deny that).You can call her pretty, beautiful, cute a  million times and she may never believe you but call her UGLY just once and she will never  forget. That’s what hurts her the most. She might act strong and say that she doesn’t care about what other people say but deep down she still does, it still hurts. I mean, why would anyone call a girl ugly ? Ain't it about the type of person you are ? Why judge people based on their looks ? Guys can handle it pretty well I guess, I’m a girl & I know she cannot handle it.

You Don't Understand !!!

      One sentence that really annoys me is “You don’t understand”.

Every time somebody has this sad face because of “problems” they have, I try to be a nice friend, tell them it’s gonna be okay & ask them to cheer up but what I get in return is “Yuh don’t understand” -.-' Like seriously ??..... just because I do not sit all day whining about my problems, my grief or the pain that I hide inside……yuh think I have NO PROBLEMS ?? You look at the happy me & think how my life is so simple and perfect  with no drama. Someone who doesn’t understand something is YOU !! Yes, Y-O-U !!! 

**But at the end, what I end up saying is “Yes, I do not understand :S” (because I don’t wanna upset them more)

         I may not understand what you are going through unless it is something that I have experienced earlier BUT what I do understand is life cannot be THAT bad, we just have to look at it through different angles. Everyone thinks their problem is the biggest in the whole wide world(SO TRUE); like they are going through the most painful pain. Breaking up, fighting with friends or arguing with family members etc does not mean the end of the world. What YOU need to understand is problems are a part of our life, we need to accept them, running away or panicking is NEVER going to help, you need to fight against it.  Some unknown person once said "If life gives you  100 reasons to cry, show life you have 1000 reasons to smile”. No matter how dark or frightening a night is, we can assure our hearts that tomorrow,we will have sunshine, it’ll be a new day, it’ll be a better day J

         So, what I want from you guys is to stop worrying about your little problems & when  you feel  like your life is not good enough…..ALWAYS look at the less fortunate ones(sth taught to me by my mom <3). It’ll show you how lucky you are. Stop complaining about today and hope for a better tomorrow, because if you keep trying and believing HAPPINESS will find its way !! :D

Xoxo

Happy Girl <3


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